under 30s thread

[Former-Member]

@Zoe7 I joined there three and half years ago and they have helped me through lots of things like the trauma stuff and when my dad died and all that stuff. I feel safe there like I can talk about what's upsetting and it's a safe place for me because I don't have that in real life. I thought they were supportive of me and listened to me but im not welcome there anymore and that hurts so much. When you are used to checking the site every couple of days to see what's going on, providing support, having people there for you, joining in live chats and then it's all gone, all the friends I made all the people i talk to and get to know, gone I'm cut off from them
Just like I was cut off from my family and cut off from every other support network I have ever tried to get help from

[Former-Member]

I didn't get to see them today @Zoe7 I wanted to see the kids and I couldn't they cancelled access they are not allowed to do that

[Former-Member]

I have tried explaing to them that banning me from makes that constant feeling of lonliness and rejection that I have even worse

[Zoe7]

Yes @Former-Member I can imagine how heartbroken you feel at the moment. It is so hard when you feel let down - especially when you have been through so much on there. I know this is incredibly hard for you - I get that. We are here to support you though buddy - we care about you and we like having you around. 

You will be able to go back to your friends there (which will actually make me a little sad because then we won't see you as much here ) - and maybe as @outlander has said - you can work talk to them about how this has made you feel and work on a plan that can help you stay there and not get banned again.

...and we will be here for now whenever you need 

[Former-Member]

"we aren't equipped to deal with this"
"You will have to seek help elsewhere"
"you cannot be a part of this program anymore"
"We care about you but.... you are making this too hard for us to keep working with you"
"We can't have you hear anymore"
"You are too hard"
Every. Play. Ever.

[Former-Member]

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[Zoe7]

No wonder you are feeling like this tonight @Former-Member - was there any reason given for cancelling access? That is so not fair on you 

[Former-Member]

They didn't say @Zoe7 it's not fair i only see them once a week for an hour they CANT DO THAT

[Former-Member]

I want to see them so bad at the moment I'm not allowed to do anything I can't even see my family 😞

[Former-Member]

I'm going to flip