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Re: I dont know how much longer i can go on like this

@outlander - stress, worry and/or past trauma effects memthe same way - having nightmares where I either can't sleep but the quality is so poor because of it, I wake up tired. I had to take something for it for awhile just recently which helped. Do you find meds helpful at all when experiencing this? It really is taxing on the mind and body and I worry for you.

We have bought some land 5 mins up the road on the ocean to build a new house on - it's exciting but all the cofuffle leading up to it is extremely stressful. The last few days my husband has been sick, my daughter had to return home after another abusive relation with someone and a couple of people whom I thought were friends hurt me. I do have a lot of friends and I am lucky there, but it still hurts.

It is in its 40s here too, they predict a heatwave. Do you see a trauma counsellor about your nightmares? I do hope you get some sleep tonight. I feel for you

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Thanks for the advice on the threads where I can post pics @outlander. I will post them for you @Bunniekins and @outlander now and tag you when they are posted (might be the dreaded triangle for awhile though lol). ❤️

Re: I dont know how much longer i can go on like this

@Former-Member sorry to hear past traumas affect you so much too. Its horrible isnt it. I feel for you too 💕
No, no meds have helped with sleep at all and ive tried several of them so i dont take them now.

That sounds like a nice place to live but yes very stressful in the lead up to that and whilst your new house is being built too.

Thats alot of stress happening around you! Is tour hubbys sickness something like a cold or viral infection-something that can be treated?. Im sorry to hear about your daughter, that must be really horrible for everyone involved and thise friends i feel for you there too. I lost all my friends and its so hurtful. I am glad you still have others and of course here to help you along too. Those friends are missing out on a beautiful friendship for sure 💕

The heat is horrible isnt it! Im so glad they invented air con!


Im not currently seeing a counsellor. Ill be maybe looking for another one i the near future though. This will be take 7.

I will keep an eye out for the tag! Looking forward to seeing your work!

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My husband has cancer and other chronic health conditions @outlander. But you wouldn't know it by looking out him - he looks fit, youthful and agile. Looks can be deceiving sometimes. I hope this next counsellor is "the one" finally and can help you. Pics should be up soon 💕😊

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im really sorry to hear that @Former-Member please make sure you take care of yourself too though, you matter too Heart 

im glad he doesnt look it though, that cna help with handling things too. 

thank you Heart and i can see the pics now 

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@outlander Afternoon hun, not staying on here today. I thought about last night and that could have been stopped earlier by a mod, so don’t feel comfortable, I hope you are ok, I know you didn’t get any sleep last night. Take it easy today hun, always in my thoughts sis 💖💖💖

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i know sis @Former-Member please take care Heart

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@outlander It should have been stopped when names were used. I will always be here for you and will log in to check on you. Just tag me if you need me and I will be there for you. 💜 Especially with Sans not around we need each other more and more. Talk soon sweetie❤️❤️❤️

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@Former-MemberHeart i am so fking worried about her, esp after her last post on a separate thread all together. 

plesase take care of yourself. i am home alone- disrtacting myself from whatever it is going on in my brain 

if you need me then tag me Heart

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@outlander I know hun so am I and we know how close she was so fearing the worst 💜just so damm hard the not knowing and we might not ever know. ❤️Just take care today