im back..... i think

[Former-Member]

Morning @outlander @Faith-and-Hope @outlander @Anony18 @Former-Member what a lovely day to wake up in the Barossa Valley. The air is crisp and cool but the sun is shining.
@outlander I think it was very brave of you to try to talk to the girls and to talk to your parents. Don't give up now. We're by your side

[Anony18]

Morning all!!! Sorry @outlander - was with you physically in Barossa Valley but I think the wine and smell of fresh air just knocked me out cold earlier than normal! 

Outlander, @Former-Member is right. It is very brave of you to talk to them because it is hard to talk the tough topics that impacts us. We are here with you and for you xxx

[outlander]

Its not going anywhere now
They wont talk to mr
So yhr next time i see them its going to be very awkward
I cant deal with this shite anymore

@Anony18 @Former-Member

[outlander]

hows this for berossa Valley- oh and the house in the first picture is where we are staying- ill see if i can get better pictures for you

@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Anony18

what do you guys think- beautiful view, peaceful, no worries in the world and they also have a garden too

its called cuspids cottage

[Former-Member]

It's lovely @outlander

[outlander]

@Former-Member ❣❣❣💐💐💐

How are you feeling today
Beatiful day here isnt it

[outlander]

@Faith-and-Hope where do i go from here...

I dont want to get mum sacked but i want to find out whats going on
I dont know what to do

[Faith-and-Hope]

My strongest advice to you at the moment @outlander is to just put it all down and step back. I can't see you getting through any way you try to deal with it ..... so to continue talking about it with people who don't want to hear will just be viewed as agitating, and all the blame for whatever happens will wash back into you.

There is a Christian saying that goes -

"If you find no welcome there, then remove your sandals as you leave that town and shake the dust off them before you walk away ..... ". (paraphrased)

It's safe advice. If you can't get through, stand back ..... go around .... go a different way ..... release ..... proceed no further with it ....

You are going to have to come to some acceptance that it is not a situation you can resolve. That doesn't mean you are accepting everyone's attitude or behaviour .... it's just "agreeing to disagree".

You can't control other people and their outcomes. You can only control yours.

💙💕

[outlander]

Thanks @Faith-and-Hope 💖

Im avoiding as much as possible atm

[Faith-and-Hope]

Attragirl @outlander ..... ❣️

The flip side is that you are going to have to keep yourself busy with other things so that you don't "ruminate" all day ..... hashing and rehashing everything that has happened over and over again in your mind and stewing on it all.

Can you try something new ? A new art class or something ? You might make some new friends there with common interests.

💐💙