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23 Jun 2018 06:04 PM
23 Jun 2018 06:04 PM
You are incredibly hard on yourself, and you have such a beautiful, but sensitive nature that is easily hurt. No, it wasn't you that hurt my feelings.
I'm aware I probably need to discuss it with the person involved, but as the days pass it gets harder to do. And I of course have been over sensitive, over rationalising, and overthinking the whole situation.
I want to talk to the mods desperately about it, but it's not a crisis really. Its just hard to be here because it heightens the situation and makes me feel quite distressed & uncomfortable. I need someone to help me rationalise it all, and then put to rest and move on.
I'm much like you too in that last paragraph, where I react strongly to any criticism, regardless of its constructive or not. I get on the devensive very easily, and my tone of voice turns very abrupt, which then inflames the situation further. Its a part of me I totally detest.
Not you @Teej
Our conversations have been fine. Please take that stress off yourself. But don't ask me who it is or what happened as I need time to work it out.
23 Jun 2018 06:16 PM
23 Jun 2018 06:16 PM
Thank you for the post @Sans911 💜. I have had lots of moments of going through something similar and having to talk it out with the mods so I get that. Like you I hold things so deeply and losing some of that emotion is really hard. I hope you get to sort it out soon. I understand very much having to talk through things to help process them and the feelings that go with it. If I do ever hurt you or anyone reading this please do address it with me. I’m sorry you are hurting so much. Best wishes and healing hugs 💜🤗
23 Jun 2018 07:55 PM
24 Jun 2018 09:15 AM
24 Jun 2018 09:15 AM
24 Jun 2018 01:31 PM
24 Jun 2018 01:31 PM
Are you EVER coming back?! You are so missed by me, and I'm sure others too. Its been over two months now. I miss your candour, your vulnerability, your warmth and compassion for others. I miss EVERYTHING about you so much. My heart and head hurt at missing you.
I've no idea if you're still on this earthly plane, but if you are, I hope you can come back to us. 🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁
Missing @CheerBear
too. I hope though your retreat is what it needs to be for some healing.
🙁💜🙁💜🙁💜🙁💜🙁💜🙁
24 Jun 2018 01:58 PM
24 Jun 2018 01:58 PM
Missing @Phoenix_Rising too @Sans911
24 Jun 2018 06:11 PM
24 Jun 2018 06:11 PM
Missing Phoenix_Rising too .... 😔🐢🌷💕
And hoping the retreat time is going well for @CheerBear .....💐💕
24 Jun 2018 06:56 PM
24 Jun 2018 06:56 PM
24 Jun 2018 06:58 PM
24 Jun 2018 06:58 PM
Have I done something to offend you @Sans911 - please tell me if I have
24 Jun 2018 07:08 PM
24 Jun 2018 07:08 PM
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