Can someone help me

[MissG]

@Pepsimaxthe sense of loss left behind when ppl we love or care about can take a long time to fill or to even ease... there are people who do care about you though... might sound corny but it is true... and you aren't alone even though it may feel that way... other people are here today and so am I and would love you to chat with us x

[Roadrunner]

Hi @pepsimax

It's Roadrunner one of the moderators here.  I've got your email and want to reply back with some support strategies in an email real soon to you.

Take it easy and stay safe.

RR

[Shaz51]

@Former-Member 

[Pepsimax]

@Shaz51 @Former-Member @NikNik @outlander @CheerBear @MissG @Former-Member wish law and order svu was on more often its the best show

[Shaz51]

wonder if @Roadrunner likes law and order svu @Pepsimax

[MissG]

@PepsimaxI used to get into Law and Order SVU. Used to be a fave show ages ago. I think it's on netflix now.

[Phoenix_Rising]

@Pepsimax I have super gigantic missing-CherryBomb feelings too. It super super SUPER hurts. And like you say, when we lose someone important to us, it triggers other super gigantic missing feelings about other people we have lost. I know how super badly it hurts. For me, I know there is no way to fix it, I just need to ride the wave.

I personally don't struggle with urges to SH. If I want to SH, I just do it. It isn't an urge I fight against. However, when I have the urge to suicide, I lie in my bed or on the floor. I know it is just a feeling and that feelings pass. I don't find it helpful to focus on NOT doing something. For me, that's like trying to NOT think about pink elephants. What I'm trying to say is that when I am struggling with the urge to suicide, I don't work at not suiciding. Rather, I do something that makes it physically impossible to act on the urge, which for me means lying in my bed or on the floor. The big feelings can be superly duperly gigantic, but they are only feelings and feelings pass.

Anyway, I really just wanted to let you know that you are not alone in having super gigantic missing-people feelings today. I know how very very badly the feelings can hurt.

[MissG]

@Shaz51I only met @Cherryblossom  once or twice so didn't know her well but understand what it is like to be missing somebody close 😞

[Shaz51]

Hey hello @Phoenix_Rising 

Hi @MissG, yes sometimes i will watch midsomers murders , it is soo silly but good to just sit and watch

[Former-Member]

I miss people I have lost too. Some days I'm fine and some days it's really really hard. Hugs to you @Pepsimax