I dont know how much longer i can go on like this

[Sans911]

@Zoe7 @outlander

Zoe had said it really well in her last post. And don't worry @outlander. You and I have a lot of very similar behaviours that we both need to work on. So it's ok. I know in my post earlier I reacted instead of acting. I realise now that there was a lot of other things going on for you, and you also reacted to me! Just keep going. We'll both get where we need to be eventually

[Zoe7]

Hey @Sans911 I think it is human nature to react first in some instances - so you are not alone there. The one thing you learn very early on teaching kids is that there is no point 'talking' to them about their actions, behaviours etc. until they have 'calmed down' and can see what has happened with a much more objective view. It is a skill to be able to know and implement that type of response but one which we rarely can apply to ourselves - it does take awareness, consistency and practice - all really difficult when we are right in the middle of a reaction or emotional struggle.

[outlander]

yes that makes sense @Zoe7 thank you for explaing that to me and also the post to @Sans911 makes sense too.

@Sans911we will both get there, keep going forward we help each other here and thats the best part

im going to just sit here quietly for abit if anyone wants to join me

@Former-Memberyou usually come and chill with me and @Sans911 about now if your around

[Sans911]

@outlander both myself & @Former-Member are in a very low point. So I'll just sit with you and Nell quietly too.

[outlander]

the 3 lowskeeters hey @Sans911@Former-Member 

quietly sitting here offering hand to hold if you would like

[Sans911]

@outlander that's very clever. I like it a lot ☺️

[outlander]

did i manage a smile @Sans911 no pressure at all. 

here for you if you want to talk or just sit

[Former-Member]

@outlander @Sans911 

Haven't got any words tonight so just sitting 

[outlander]

sitting it is then @Former-Member

[Former-Member]