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I dont know how much longer i can go on like this

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I have no idea lol. Im looking and looking. The style i want is the same but i gues ita a matter of finding them in the colour.

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hi @Former-Member and @outlander
sounds like yous are shopping online?

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Hi @MDT online instore or at second hand places. Checked second hand shops all day yesterday with no luck so onto fb and online shopping

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@outlander @Former-Member - and I like white lol just to be different. I like white because it looks fresh, clean. Do you have something in each colour @outlander to put side by side to compare?

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Hi @outlander

 

It's really great to read that you are planning the house for yourself after all this time - choices - choices and more choices and they can be yours and your Pops

 

I bet he will be much better now both of you have all this space

 

From my own experience I know that you need to get your Mum's stuff out of the place before you can really see what you want - and when it comes to colours - I remember an on-line game I played for a couple of days and that was to dress a manikin in different kinds and colours of clothes - maybe you can find an app that shows rooms you can decorate to see what kinds of colours too - just an idea

 

But you will feel different having all the space and the privacy to plan your own life - it's great to come here this morning and read that you are thinking about all of this already

 

Well done - I am so happy for you

 

Dec

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@Sans911 will try to put picks ip

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Yes @Owlunar lots of decisions to make. Im not fussy except for furniture haha
Trying to get some comparison pics. I actually have one of each colout in my room currently and still cat decide just have to move some stuff thats packed so i can get pics

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ok so the top one is the white piece with the colour of my room and the bottom one is the timber colour i like as well but cant decide which one yet. the pic with the timber shows the colour a little lighter but thats the lighting. the colour is the same as the top pic

 

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@outlander I will have to give you an idea later, sorry. Battery is at 8% so I have to give it to nurses to charge. Can't have my phone charger with me.

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Imagine being able to lie on YOUR couch or sit in YOUR chairs to watch YOUR choice of TV or movies

 

I love my life they way it is picking what I like to do - 

 

My guess is to go for solid wood furnishings - I have a solid wood desk that was among my first purchases when I was young - I needed a desk to study when I was at night school - and I ordered two - my little sis saw the ad in the paper and liked it and wanted one too - so I told Mum I would order two and not to tell little sis so she got a huge surprise when two turned up and Dad painted hers and varnished mine and I have my desk to this day - and it is still varnished the way Dad did it

 

Regardless - you can think about this as they move our - I guess getting up so early to take the kids to school will be part of the freedom deal but I think your Mum can pay for the petrol - after all - it pays her to be able to work while you fetch and carry the kids - you can peacefully suggest this after you have worked out how much petrol it all takes

 

This is so good - and talk to your Pop about the furnishings too - maybe he will chip in for the cost - who knows

 

Dec

 

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