when is it time for hospital

[Owlunar]

Hi @outlander

You have had so much happen to you and you have so much to do it is amazing but you are still there and you still

Kick ^^^^

No matter how bad you feel - somehow you keep going

You are a champion - I know it doesn't feel like it from the inside but from the outside - yes - we can all see it - you are brave

Just in case you don't really see this 

YOU ARE BRAVE

REALLY BRAVE

Dec

[outlander]

Breathe..........
Breathe......

[Owlunar]

I know you are breathing @outlander - and that's good

Where are you now - what's happening?

Have you done the washing? What time to you leave?

Your kind and wise owl is watching over you right now

Dec

[outlander]

Im at home
Ive done another load of washing went and got kids lunch
Just about to do another load of washing
I leave to take kids at 1230 then off to drs
@Owlunar

[outlander]

And that was a reminder for me to breathe lol

[Former-Member]

Great big cyber-nan hugs to you Claire

Sending you calmness and courage

[Former-Member]

At least having your sisters and mums away is actually a good thing in that it's keeping you busy,that's a good thing.

[Former-Member]

You are doing super well @outlander

[Owlunar]

Oh @outlander

Whatever else you do or don't do today - keep breathing - that is kinda the most important thing to do

For goodness sake - how many loads of washing do you have to do today? I think you are up to three

I've done one and there is the other one - that's two since Friday - ah - I have an idea

How much would it cost to do the washing at the laundromat and how much would it cost to buy sandwiches for the kids?

How much to have someone come in an vacuum? - tidy up after all these people? - cook dinner? etc

Your mother would be shocked at the price - something like $50.00 an hour - it's just an idea and I don't recomend it but giving your mother an account of how much it would cost her for a cleaner and baby-sitter would really be an eye-opener but then - it seems to me she is blind to just how much you do to allow her to work - 

She actually can't afford you

I paid my daughter to do the vacuuming and some of the ironing - I was working and studying and didn't feel it was fair that she do these extra chores without paying her something - 

Okay - enough of that - all the best with the operation today - and as for being scared - I know - I will be doing that tomorrow - MRI - not even anything happening - just someone looking

So I get it Outlander - it's horrible - but keep breathing

Hugs though

Dec

[outlander]

I dont think i got this @Owlunar @Former-Member @Former-Member @Former-Member
Im really panicing

And im up to my 4th load of washing with another 3 to go but i wont be able to do much im about to have sutures that need to heal and the more i move them which means reaching up to the clothesline alot.