when is it time for hospital

[Former-Member]

You have got it @outlander, you have been doing so well up unti now.

You need to keep youself calm, especially since you are about to drive and need your senses for that.

The washing can wait. Someone else will just have to do it. You need to put yourself first @outlander and at the moment the most important person is you. 

[outlander]

I cant keep calm @Former-Member
I cant do this
Im terrified!
Petrified!

Oh god i cant

[Owlunar]

Wow @outlander

That is a huge amount of washing - like your mother couldn't have done some of that over the weekend?

Sheesh - she is so &%$##% lazy - I have said enough

Anyway - I am sure that other people here will back me up on this - no way can you hang the washing for the next week or so - that will be a decent sized suture line and you must now allow that to be stretched - so yes - your mother will have to deal with the laundry for a few days 

But isn't one of your sisters about 14 - how come she doesn't get to help with the washing? I mean - fair's fair - how long have you been doing all of this work?

Still watching

Dec

[Former-Member]

ok @outlander repeat to yourself

I CAN do this

I am STRONG 

I am BRAVE 

I have CONTROL of myself and ICAN DO THIS

[outlander]

She leavea tomorrow so im trying to get washing done now and she can do tomorrow so i wont have to do much through the week


Gos im panicing! @Owlunar

[outlander]

Oh i dont believe that @Former-Member
But ill try
I have to leave in 5 minutes to take kids then to drs. So i have an hour to go now

[Former-Member]

just focus on @outlander what you need to do now, just for the next hour.

You need to drive the kids to the babysitters, drop them off and go to your appointment. Thats all you need to concentrate on.

And you need to be calm to drive.

[Owlunar]

I understand @outlander

The time is approaching - now is the minute by minute count-down

I know this is scary - I have had this done myself - don't hold your breath though - keep breathing

Dec

[outlander]

Ok @Former-Member
Well then i should probably breathe to start with
1. Calm down
2. Drive to babysitters
3. Get kids set up there
4. Drive to gp
5. Check in
6. Let them do what they need

[outlander]

Yes @Owlunar keep breathing