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when is it time for hospital

Re: when is it time for hospital

Hi @outlander

 

I am so glad you got some sleep last night - there were a whole bunch of us with you and you must have felt protected - whatever though - so good you got some 💤 time - I hope that feels a bit better

 

Granma Dec's orders are to stay in bed for as long as possible too - you are feeling as flat as a pancake because this is the rest you really needed to take after the operation you had and no wonder - you have had so such stress and you are exhausted

 

Try and only eat in small bites and wait until that has settled in you tummy - I know from my own life that it's harder to eat than not to eat at times and your stomach will shrink and make it harder

 

Get as much rest as you can - you really are flat - I think you get your stitches out tomorrow - I hope you can tell your doctor how you are can't eat right now - not that it is a supprise

 

Wishing you the best today @outlander - take it easy for as long as possible

 

Dec

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@outlander i can empathise with you on that
i canned going to a meetup today because i wanted to sleep in.. had an average af night last night. Seeing all these couples around me. On the plus side i realised i dont actually have to respond with sadness when i see it. It was liberating. Either way sleep is essential so i am happy that you got enough or at least tried to anyway.
What movie are you watching?

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Ok @Former-Member ..

Ok Granny @Owlunar im out of bed now but ive only gotten to the lounge.
Trying for some toast this morning. Ive managed a cip of tea. And yes im going to drs tomorrow. Its a must whether i feel like it or not. So ill be going. Then i have the psych appointment in the arvo.

I seem to sleep better when theres 'noise' and knowing ive got my angels watching over even when they are asleep. Maybe its a comfort thing. .

Sleep doesnt help me. Im a chronic insomniac so even sleep doesnt seem to be enough to feel better. Sometimes it makes me feel worse.
Yes flat as a pancake. So tired.


Im watching ice age part 4 now i was watching with walking with dinosaurs. @MDT are you still going to a meetup? Might be good to get out and yes seeing couples doesnt always have to have a begative response. When i see elderly couples i find it cute.

Re: when is it time for hospital

Ok @outlander

 

Granny Dec again - watching over - which is what I did on my phone after I went to bed

 

Up and on the couch with the TV and a cup of tea - good start - with plans of toast - just nibble at it

 

Do you have any vegemite - of course if you like vegemite - it has salt to balance those electrolytes you are missing

 

My orders are to rest as much as possible today - you have been running on empty for about a week or longer now and of course you are weak - it happens to me now and again when I lose my appetite for any reason - 

 

Hey @MDT - I am glad you went out last night and could see the unhappiness of other people without needing to feel it yourself - you say you are too tall - so how tall are you. The men in my family are tall - and a man has to be really tall before I notice it. I am pretty tall myself - I like it - I never feel vertically challenged

 

I wish both of you the best today - in Melbourne it's sunny and warming up after a cold night

 

Dec

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i was @outlander but i figured i need to chill out because i have a week of busyness with a uni essay. So i can jack about today but tomorrow i gotta study and focus. Plus the meetup was not that interesting and probably costly too.
Last night was enough for me i think.
I am stressed af for next year so i guess i am jst more depressed and anxious.

I remember walking with dinosaurs. Watched it at school a few times and i remember girls in the class didnt wanna watch it because it had dinosaurs eating other ones. Boys loved that show lol

Elderly couples remind me that there is hope. My grandparents are like that. I reckon commitment in relationships seems like it is losing fashion

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@Owlunar i am 6 foot 5 tall.. you?

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Thanks @Owlunar for watching over.
Yeah im not going very far today. Mums bf is off and has decied to take the youngest one out after lunch so ill get about an hour or so quiet time.
I do have vegemite but I didnt put any on there. Just bit a butter and that was it. It seems to be staying put for now. It seems heavier things give me cramps so ill speak to my gp about it tomorrow morning.
Im resting. Im not doing much. Just watching movies and occassionally flicking onto here when im awake enough.


Ok @MDT

take it easy today then and then youll be rested ready for the week. If your up to it maybe you could get a head start on your uni essay.
Hmm gorey stuff doesnt bother me. Ive watched a lot worse than walking with dinsoaurs but yeah I can hear all the girls whinging. Not me!
People just dont seem to want to old fashioned love life they want one night stands and partying and working and just jumping into relationships nt speading time with them

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@Former-Member how are you going? hows your pain going?

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@outlander Hi, I'm spending most of the day on top of my bed. I have a terrible sinus infection. Will need strongest Antibiotics unfortunately to heal me 😞
My nose is broken up at the bridge of the nose, & at this time of year all pollen spurs in the air, & other crap. I have had this problem far too long. Will have to have a second op on my septum.
Its the only way to stop this infection, as it makes my head feel like its going to explode, no exaggeration.
This is the 5th week, its getting worse, will go to Emergency Dep, if I can not last until tomorrow. I have plenty of antioxidant's & pain killers here. Will try & get in to see My Doc tomorrow all going well?
Its easy to fix with the right meds, but I will see a E/T/&N Specialist ASAP not putting up with this not one more year!
I'm listening to that much music, I'm starting to float, no not really, just joking. I love music you probably can tell by now, hey?
Thank you for caring outlander, I appreciate you very much. XO 🙂
My Luv & Hugz Always!
Your Soul Sister!
Bella 🙂

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Hi @MDT

 

My brother is 6 foot 4 and my nephew is 6 foot 5 and I don't think that is excessively tall - Dad and his brothers were all tall me

 

I am of the female gender and I am 5 foot 7 - and I notice these days a lot of young women are taller - not that it bothers me

 

I get the feeling though being so tall you have had this rammed down your throat all your life - and you are young - my brother and I were always tall for our age as children and very thin too - so I am wondering if you are thin too

 

But I cannot see you as Lurch from The Addams Family - that might be a scary image 

 

But whatever - you feel it is too tall - and alas - if the rest of the world and me think it's okay - you have to feel okay with it but for me

 

Tall is great

 

All the best - Dec

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