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when is it time for hospital

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@outlander Wow you had quite a longer stay in hospital than I anticipated. I hope you are ok, both physically and mentally. I'll be glad to her back later from you.

It seems to be a running them this week. Hospitals, that is and people in horrible physical and emotional pain. I'm still struggling with abdominal pain, and so my back decided to join in last night and this morning to the point this morning it took me 10mins to make a coffee. Emotionally I'm a little stronger and my mind is clearer. But alongside comes also my friend anxiety to make my nights long and sleep deprived. Ugggh, no wonder mental illness is exhausting!

Take care lil Sis. I'll be be looking for your update later

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@outlander, hang in there,and I will try and do the same,chat tonight!You don't need to ask "when it is time for hospital!"lol they will be making a room "outlanders'room!"lol🌼💟

Hope you feel better @Sans911,We all have a friend Mr Anxiety by the sounds of it.I chatted on the thread "depression and loss of functioning"yesterday,I then looked on the Black Dog institute site.I thought it was anxiety but I also have,"social depression"with it,I have to avoid people I know because I am hypersensitive to comments due to having a shit time in the past,and social triggers,trigger my depression.Catch 22 because it isolates me and feeds it.But yes,the emotional pain when you get distressed can be savage.

 

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I was so terrified!
I cant bring myself to write to the story yet. It makes me hyperventilate.
It took me an hour to get into a car this morning
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@Sans911

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@lil1 you've described my life exactly in that last paragraph. I isolate when I'm depressed, because I don't want to be around people who might judge me and I have no energy or pleasure to go out, but then I isolate when anxious due to the same reasons. Thank you for your response. It always helps to know others feel the same, although obviously I wouldn't wish mental illness on anyone. It's just so horrible. I was judged by the medical staff in hospital 2days ago when I had abdominal pain because of my mh history. They thought I was drug seeking or attention seeking. Just awful to be this unwell.

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@outlander hugs and hugs to you. Get some rest if you can. Come back here later. You don't have to tell us anything except that you are ok

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Nothing major wrong with my spine @Sans911 few other injuries and alot of emotional damage
I cant stop shaking. Im too scared to get into a car
How am i suppose to work

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So yesterday on my way to work I was involved in a car accident. I thought I was ok but it tunred out I wasnt as ok as I thought I was. It really rattled me. It was me vs a truck as in like those big water tanker trucks not 4wd. We both rounded a blind spot yesterday and we both moved as far across in what little space and time we had but it was too close. He s pushed me right onto thr other side of the road where I thought things were going to go ok until I ran over something in thr grass and busted 2 tyres and lost control. My car stopped just before I reached the big dip that goes straight into the creek I was able to get out and the truckie stopped as well no damage to his truck or him but my car wasnt into the greatest shape. I was ok and felt fine and managed to get the car to safer place. The truckie left and I had to call pop to come and get me. We changed one tyre to my spare and then mums bf was able to drive my car slowly home.
Its a bit blurry after that but I remember getting to the hospital because I coudlnt move my neck properly and was having a heap of pain, I was dizzy and really tired and could hardly move anywhere and headaches so I ended up at the hospital after cancelling my pscyh appointment then let mum know as she went to work after I said I was ok and she could go.
Well then didnt crap hit the fan. The accident really started to dawn on me and how serious it was. I had blurred vision to the point I really couldnt see anything. It was way too blurry, I couldnt stop shaking one because I really couldnt see I could make out blurred figures. I kept vomiting everywhere and Thats why they wanted urgent Cts done. So I had that done, bloods, ecg and a few other tests. It was so awkward because they wanted to see if I had internal injuries. None of those but I have a few brusies from the seatbelt tin a few spots where I mustve jerked forward when the car was going haywire
I cant really remember all too much about the results but they couldnt have been too bad as they released me today. Im abit better today. My blurred vision gones but ive still got a mild headache and earache from it. I remember them saying I lost conciousness twice. They said that everything was coming up ok so all of this was total and utter shock so they kept me overnight. I dont really remember much else after I had all the tests done they eventually let me sleep, mustve slept all night . Not really sure what time I woke up but I remember waking with a start because I had a nightmare about the accident and then as it was coming to an end someone touched me. Just a nurse.
Went back to sleep though.
Not the greatest way to be in hospital. They wanted to keep me in until about lunch time just to make sure and I ended up getting out about 1030ish.

Im still really letheragic and lacking in energy, and in quite abit of pain from bruising and general aches and pains esp my back and neck. But otherwise im ok. Physically anyway. Mentally im having a few flashabacks and the thought of having to get back into a car panics me. Ive called my boss and said I wont be in the rest of the week and shes totally understanding about it.


Thank you guys for sticking by me during this time. It really means a great deal to me. More than what I can express in words. So thank you so so much.

 

sorry if this isnt making a whole heap of sense and sorry about spelling mistakes if theres anyway. still really tired and drained. will come back on later tonight

 

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@outlander glad to hear you are out of hospital
you've had a busy week or so now which has thrown you about a hell of a lot..
rest up and take it easy

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@outlander wow that's a super serious car accident. And very irresponsible of the truck driver to leave the scene without calling an ambulance or rescue services for you. Often we do things out of character when we have an accident, like getting out of the car or continuing on. It's from shock and trauma. I can't believe you changed the tyre on your car! There is a lot of mechanical forces involved in a vehicle accident that have huge impacts on the body, particularly the brain. There is an action when our brains are thrown forwards & backward called coup & countercoup. These actions lead to concussion, which explain the blurred vision, tiredness, headaches and vomiting. No wonder the medical staff were concerned and kept you in. Concussion can last quite a while, so at least you've sensibly taken time off work. Take the time now to rest, sleep, take anti inflammatory meds for pain, and look after YOU. Your mother needs to take care if you as well as take responsibility for your grandfather & your sisters. I hope for your sake your sisters respect your need to rest and recover. I feel so helpless right now as I'd love to take you away and let you recover in a gentle, caring environment.

You need to see your GP soon; let them know about the accident so they can keep an eye on you. And your pysch needs to know too; you are already suffering PTSD.

Take care of yourself ok @outlander. Hugs and live to you like Sis

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thanks @MDT Heart

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